From the very second the doctors handed me Jasper I knew everyone was in trouble. I went so overboard with stressing over a schedule I made everyone miserable. Looking back now I laugh. Jasper was a terrible sleeper so I was sleep deprived, crazy, and on edge. I had times that people could come and visit, which isn't a terrible thing but I refused help. I wish I would have allowed everyone to come clean, cook and help me with Jasper. I just felt like I had to do everything on my own.
As the months have rolled by I realize that Jasper is so far from a baby on schedule and I am relaxed now. My three things that I stick to are- only two naps a day, no naps past 5pm and bed time is always 9pm. He seems to follow these three things just fine and we go about our day in his awake hours playing, learning, and exploring new things. I try my best to be the best mom that I can, and I live by mommy knows best.
Mommy ALWAYS knows best!
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